When meeting someone for the first time, always be cautious. The following information acts as a guide to what you should be aware of.

Always meet in public
On first meetings, ALWAYS arrange to rendezvous in a populated, public place. Never meet in a private home (or in a hotel room) or in a remote location.

Tell a friend
Tell at least one friend or family member who you are meeting, where you are going and when you expect to return. Let your date know your meeting is not a secret.

Tip: Contact your friend before and after the date or ask your friend to contact you at a predetermined time.

Stay sober
Refrain from drinking excessively, as it could impair your ability to make good decisions and may put you at risk.

Tip: Stick to nonalcoholic drinks when meeting someone for the first time.

Never leave home without your mobile phone
If you have a mobile phone, take it with you on all dates.

Never ask the other person to pick you up
Get yourself to and from the date, even if you have to have a friend to drive you or take a taxi.

Never leave personal belongings or drinks unattended
Don't risk having your personal information stolen. The same goes for your drink - don't risk having it tampered with.

Tip: If you must leave your drink unattended to go to the restroom, order another drink when you return.

Never succumb to the temptation to take first dates to your home (or go to his or her home). Stay in a public place, even if you are pressured. If you feel pressured, end the meeting and leave at once.

Tip: If you are followed to where you parked your car, stop and hail a taxi or go into another public place to use the telephone to phone a friend. Come back later with your friend to get your car.