The following acts as a guide for your safety in relation to Internet dating.

Guard your identity
Even in person, you wouldn't give your number out to just anyone. Don't share your real name, personal phone numbers, place of work, home address or any other identifying information while chatting or emailing until you are comfortable doing so.

Tip: Never post personal contact information in your Portrait. Don't risk having this information fall into the wrong hands.

Remain anonymous
At least until you feel safe and ready to explore other options.

Example: Sometimes, instead of asking for information, a person simply provides his or her phone number early in the email exchange. That doesn't obligate you to use it. You might say something like, "I'm more comfortable just exchanging email for the time being."

Use an anonymous email address
Always use an email address that DOES NOT include your name. Make sure you turn off any signatures or identifying information in your e-mail.

Tip: Consider using a P.O. Box for snail mail.

Be careful when using a sexy name
Keep in mind that, while using sexual connotations in your email address or username might get you noticed, it probably won't attract the type of person you'd like to share a relationship with-or even a conversation for that matter.

Tip: Don't include your real name or city of residence within your email address or in your username.

Use a current picture
Be truthful in your description of yourself in your Match.com profile. Misleading descriptions or photos can result in angry feelings and can end a relationship before it begins. In the long run, honesty is your best relationship tool.

Always trust your gut
Immediately quit corresponding when you feel unsure or threatened.